Unplug and recharge: 7 signs you need a mental health day

Mental Health and Wellness
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If you’re physically sick, you know to stay home from work. Staying home helps you rest and recover. But if you’re struggling with your mental health, you may not think to take a day off — and to some, it may even seem inappropriate.

Staying home from work to improve your mental wellness is often referred to as a "mental health day." Some people may not think they need one. Others don’t think it’s worth the trouble. And for others, they think that people wouldn’t understand. However, mental health days are one of the best ways to recharge.

"Mental health days can reduce feelings of burnout and loneliness as well as reduce your risk of a mental health crisis and future absences," says Margi C. Shah, MD, a psychiatrist at Mirmont Outpatient Center Broomall, part of Main Line Health. "They can also improve your morale, productivity and resiliency when you return to work."

If you haven’t taken a mental health day in a while (or ever), here are 7 signs it might be time:

1. You’ve lost your motivation to succeed.

At one point, you were excited to go to work. You looked forward to accomplishing your goals, learning how to be a better employee and growing as a person.

Now, you don’t have that same motivation. You go through the day on autopilot, sometimes not even remembering (or caring about) what you got done.

Motivation can decrease over time without the chance to recharge. A mental health day allows you to check out for a day — so you can check back in with more motivation than before.

2. You have symptoms of anxiety or depression.

Burnout is a common culprit for depression and anxiety — both at work and at home. You might worry excessively about your work, experience unhappiness at work or feel unusually worried or sad when at home.

A personal health day can help ease these feelings, recharging and reigniting your passion for what you do. Keep in mind — clinical depression and anxiety can’t be addressed with a day off. If you’re feeling symptoms of depression and anxiety that seem more severe, talk to your health care provider for support.

3. You’re not sleeping well.

"Sleep Medicine is often a reflection of your overall health. While feeling burned out can make you exhausted and ready to go to sleep, you may not get the shuteye that you’d expect," says Dr. Shah. "Instead, you might be sleeping too little or too much. Or, your sleep might be poor quality, leaving you feeling perpetually tired."

Taking the day to recharge can reset your sleep schedule. You can take an afternoon nap, and then focus on getting a full night of quality sleep.

4. Your body is telling you it’s time for a break.

Stress can do more than affect your mental state — it can also impact you physically. If your job is stressing you out, it might show up as:

  • Headaches
  • Dizziness
  • High blood pressure
  • Stomach or digestion problems
  • Chest discomfort
  • Muscle pain or tension

You may also find that you’re getting sick more frequently, which can be a result of a weakened immune system. Stress can also impact your libido, making you less interested in sex.

All of these signs are a wake-up call from your body telling you to take a day off to get well.

5. You’re not as productive as you once were.

Your to-do list is never-ending, your inbox is overflowing and you are having a hard time getting things done. You’ve transformed from a go-getter to trying to dodge new assignments simply because you can't manage it all — despite your workload and hours not having changed.

Burnout makes it hard to plan your tasks, focus on doing them and follow through. As a result, you might be less productive than you once were.

To combat this, a mental health day will give you the mental reset you need to come back with a fresh set of eyes and a refreshed ability to check items off your list.

6. You’re mentally taking your work home with you.

Work is meant to take up a portion of your day, leaving the rest of the time to do whatever you choose, whether spending time with family, engaging in personal hobbies or doing things that make you happy.

Recently, you’ve been focusing on work well past your normal schedule. This might show up as being constantly anxious about what you need to get done, and in some cases, you may end up working past the point you know is healthy.

A mental health day can serve as a reminder of what taking time for yourself feels like — and how it improves your mood. It can also help you stay present in activities outside of work and focus on things that bring you joy.

7. You feel angry or irritable.

If you’ve been snapping at friends, family or coworkers over small or nonexistent problems, not only can that make you unpleasant to be around, but it can also be a sign of stress. When you’re stressed, it’s more difficult to control your reactions. Things that normally wouldn’t bother you suddenly become triggers.

Taking a day off can refill your reserves of patience and understanding and help you gain perspective. You’ll be able to approach minor and major problems more gracefully, avoiding making issues worse down the road.

Changing your perspective with a mental health day

Work can play a fairly central role in your life. While this isn’t a problem in itself, it can be if you’re feeling burned out, stressed or generally unhappy. By taking a day to yourself here and there, you’ll change your outlook on your responsibilities, whether at work or in your personal life.

A mental health day may be a day off, but it will leave you refreshed, recharged and ready to get back to work.

Next steps:

Make an appointment with a behavioral health therapist
Learn more about behavioral health care at Main Line Health
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